5 Questions to Make You Sound Smart about Art this Holiday Season

Yesterday, a collector told me, “People never ask me about my art collection.”

Art conversations can intimidate even those who love art most.

The most passionate art fans have said to me:
 
“I love art but never know how to talk about it. I just don’t want to say the wrong thing.”  
 
If you’ve ever counted yourself amongst this crowd, rest assured — you are not alone.
 
The good news is there are easy solutions, starting with this list of questions you can use to start a meaningful conversation about art. 
 
Best of all, they shine the spotlight on your fellow conversationalist while making you sound smart from the get-go. 
 
1)  What is your favorite piece of art you own?

2)  Why did you select this particular artwork?

3)  What is the first piece of art you ever acquired?

4)  What is the first work of art that made an impression on you?

5)  If you could own any piece of art in the world, what would it be?
 
These questions can encourage people to tell a story about their art collection, while building a warm connection that makes the interaction feel more memorable. 
 
This also shows you are a guest who pays attention, fostering a positive impression that strengthens the relationship.
 
Even if the person does not own the art, these questions invite them to dream big as they share their artistic passions, preferences, and aspirations. 
 
All of these questions echo the artist, Helen Frankenthaler, who said, “Every canvas is a journey all its own.”
 
When you help people take this journey — especially at holiday gatherings — you become more than just a conversationalist, but a curator of conviviality.

Well played!